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T O P I C R E V I E WAiryaquarianHis Sun conjunct my North Node by 1 degreeHis Sun Conjunct my venus by 1 degreeeHis Mars oppisite my moon by 1 degreeHis North Node conjunct my Mercury by 1 deDuring the time we met again and slept together, the transit NN was conjucnt his vertexHi Everyone,I learned how the Sun conjunt North node works, he surely brought a confidence in me, I thought I'd never accomplish.We have been friends on and off for a year. This whole time, I was exploring myself sexually with other partners. I was trying to fix the damage I experienced in my upbringing and other insecurities.Needless to say, none of these experiences helped.I just about gave up on intimacy when he contacted me randomly and i met up with him. It was one of the most soul wrenching, pleasing experiences, Where I finally realized "This is what sex is supposed to feel like."Now, i'm not sure if I should contact him again.When i met him it was definitely a pull as they described.So, anyone else felt so obessed------------------If you live it up, you wont live it downAubyanneObsessed? No. But I've had growth experiences when their SUN is on my NNODE. Oddly enough, all of these men have always been very helpful to me, in helping me along my path -- far more than the average. So, seems legit. But obsession, I've not experienced that with this.RosalindNo. Example: My NN is in Aries. Am I obsessed with every Aries person I meet? No. BUT, I am destined to have something with people of that sign. May it be friendship, or love or anything like that, I have to LEARN and to TEACH something to Aries people. NN is our current life karma. Positive or negative, its our karma that must be cleaned.yungang_grottoI think it's normal and even desirable to feel 'obsessed' by--or irresistibly drawn towards--somebody who makes you feel good and right, fulfilled and on the right path.... Someone who embodies that which you instinctively feel is the most rewarding, peaceful ideal of life and love...I think Sun conjunct Venus and maybe Moon opp Mars would lend to the obsession factor--as in feeling totally blown away/drawn in and in love with this person. ..I'm so happy to hear you've found some healing and a positive opportunuty for engaged, meaningful, loving sex with this person. yungang_grottoI have a dear friend whose Sun is conjunct my North Node and I feel so good around her. It is not exactly obsession--it's a gentle encompassing sense of peace in the world which she and I generate together.. I sometimes have to remind myself that I am worthy of her attention and love because I admire her so much and she is so wise and wonderful... I think with the North Node we may not always know that we can embody those qualities if we are still being weighed down by the South Node, but it seems that no matter how down-trodden or disconnected we feel, it is *always* beneficial to us in a holistic sense to participate with our North Node energy... and engaging with people who encourage it is a great way to do this. I wouldn't hesitate to get in touch with him again..AiryaquarianIt is a good feeling.If it's not obsession.The Sun conjunct Node is definitely an influence, a good one that changed me for the better.Ceridwenmy Sun falls onto the NN of a colleague of mine (0°44); I donīt think he`s obsessed with me (one isolated aspect could not show that anyway imo), but he does hold me in pretty high regard and pays me a lot of attention. In some weird way it`s almost as if I can`t do anything wrong (not that I tried to so far!). While he can be quite arrogant (others have complained about this, I have never experienced it to be honest), I just felt very respected by him and had the feeling he just liked being around me. It did, however, surprise me how strongly he reacted when I was transferred to another team. Well I did not quite understand it cause, we are of course still all working at the same place, same school, just that I am now in the team responsible for a different agegroup of pupils. We are of course still part of the greater team that is the whole school and colleagues. Neverthless, when it became clear that I was apparently needed more elsewhere, and that would be the reasonable decision, he was protesting a lot and arguing with the superiors to keep me in his team, to an extent I did not quite understand to be honest. I mean it was not like I was leaving or something like that, ane even if I did, we are not that close. lolPlus he is usually not the arguing type, but calm and logical (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Aquarius help with that I am sure. Oh Venus in Aquarius, too).Nevertheless I took it as a compliment. Though of course it did not change the decision, and really, it WAS the most reasonable decision. Airyaquarian quote:Originally posted by yungang_grotto:I have a dear friend whose Sun is conjunct my North Node and I feel so good around her. It is not exactly obsession--it's a gentle encompassing sense of peace in the world which she and I generate together.. I sometimes have to remind myself that I am worthy of her attention and love because I admire her so much and she is so wise and wonderful... I think with the North Node we may not always know that we can embody those qualities if we are still being weighed down by the South Node, but it seems that no matter how down-trodden or disconnected we feel, it is *always* beneficial to us in a holistic sense to participate with our North Node energy... and engaging with people who encourage it is a great way to do this. I wouldn't hesitate to get in touch with him again..I always felt great about around him. It's definitely an energy, a good energy. That I'm sure he doesn't even know he possesses.Airyaquarian quote:Originally posted by Ceridwen:my Sun falls onto the NN of a colleague of mine (0°44); I donīt think he`s obsessed with me (one isolated aspect could not show that anyway imo), but he does hold me in pretty high regard and pays me a lot of attention. In some weird way it`s almost as if I can`t do anything wrong (not that I tried to so far!). While he can be quite arrogant (others have complained about this, I have never experienced it to be honest), I just felt very respected by him and had the feeling he just liked being around me. It did, however, surprise me how strongly he reacted when I was transferred to another team. Well I did not quite understand it cause, we are of course still all working at the same place, same school, just that I am now in the team responsible for a different agegroup of pupils. We are of course still part of the greater team that is the whole school and colleagues. Neverthless, when it became clear that I was apparently needed more elsewhere, and that would be the reasonable decision, he was protesting a lot and arguing with the superiors to keep me in his team, to an extent I did not quite understand to be honest. I mean it was not like I was leaving or something like that, ane even if I did, we are not that close. lolPlus he is usually not the arguing type, but calm and logical (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Aquarius help with that I am sure. Oh Venus in Aquarius, too).Nevertheless I took it as a compliment. Though of course it did not change the decision, and really, it WAS the most reasonable decision. Oh! A Sun person's perspective! I definitely understand his over reaction towards you. I can understand how it comes across uneasy with the Sun person. Even when I first met him, he made me uncomfortable initially as the NN person. I didn't feel like the self I usually knew ( kind how your co worker is) But like this one blog described. it's definitely a "Pull" that even though I felt uneasy at first, I felt it was very necessary to be around him for my energy growth and my health.But yeah, I can see how the sun can feel like you can do no wrong.yungang_grottoMy Sun person ( ) seems to feel particularly happy to see me, calls me when she has trouble, etc... when she visits town she makes time for me although there are hundreds of people who would love to see her (she is well loved by many! Hence again my self doubt that she would want to see me!)... I think she sees that in me which is Piscean... also, my North Node is well integrated in my chart, well aspected and generously supported--so is her Sun, then, synastrically... and I know she really feels--and returns--my admiration; we're both aware of our conviviality and the strong resonance and blossoming of genuine enjoyment when we're together. I miss her! She lives so far away... Anyway, as ever, a single aspect can't tell the whole story.. the fact that your Venus is also conjunct his Sun greatly increases the liklihood that he also admires you greatly, and you'll both likely enhance the feeling of being wonderful people when you're together.. which you may not be so sure of when you're not. But your relationship can encourage this feeling growingSeptembergirlI would love to learn more about this. I also have this aspect with someone. I'm the NN and I feel very drawn to this person as well. Just wonder if that person feels anything from the sun's perspective. Airyaquarian quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl:I would love to learn more about this. I also have this aspect with someone. I'm the NN and I feel very drawn to this person as well. Just wonder if that person feels anything from the sun's perspective. What I'm learning from this aspect, I had to understand the sign my NN is in:It's in Capricorn, my SN is in CancerHis sun is in Capricorn.With the South Node in Cancer, I'm conflicted in this life to stay home, be attached to my 'clan' family and being comfortable at home. Not exploring others outside my group.To complete my journey in life with NN in Capricorn, I have to have some type of achievement in business, going outside of my family (which is something I always feared)but, to keep a balance, I must develop a strong sense of family and achievement in whatever business endeavors i achieve.It makes sense I am so attracted to him. His home life, he moved out on his own at such a young age. Worked from the bottom and has a very stable independent life, without much family roots.------------------If you live it up, you wont live it downSeptembergirl quote:Originally posted by Airyaquarian: What I'm learning from this aspect, I had to understand the sign my NN is in:It's in Capricorn, my SN is in CancerHis sun is in Capricorn.With the South Node in Cancer, I'm conflicted in this life to stay home, be attached to my 'clan' family and being comfortable at home. Not exploring others outside my group.To complete my journey in life with NN in Capricorn, I have to have some type of achievement in business, going outside of my family (which is something I always feared)but, to keep a balance, I must develop a strong sense of family and achievement in whatever business endeavors i achieve.It makes sense I am so attracted to him. His home life, he moved out on his own at such a young age. Worked from the bottom and has a very stable independent life, without much family roots.Mine is in cap, too!! Maybe I've confused this with romantic attraction, because I'm attracted to him in that way. Not at first...but I think it's the things that we have in common through our jobs that have fueled the attraction. I just feel like we complete each other some how. Maybe I'm delusional. LolAiryaquarian quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl: Mine is in cap, too!! Maybe I've confused this with romantic attraction, because I'm attracted to him in that way. Not at first...but I think it's the things that we have in common through our jobs that have fueled the attraction. I just feel like we complete each other some how. Maybe I'm delusional. LolI know what you mean, but there might be other aspects to that.I felt a pull towards him, and I think what adds to my adoring him is the Sun conjunct Venus aspect like someone else says.Keep being around him as much as you can, see what you can learn from him this lifetime.------------------If you live it up, you wont live it downSeptembergirl quote:Originally posted by Airyaquarian: I know what you mean, but there might be other aspects to that.I felt a pull towards him, and I think what adds to my adoring him is the Sun conjunct Venus aspect like someone else says.Keep being around him as much as you can, see what you can learn from him this lifetime.Our composite has sun conjunct Venus in Scorpio. 😬Airyaquarian quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl: Our composite has sun conjunct Venus in Scorpio. 😬Why my dear, your screwed Hahaha, but from a sun's stand point, he's going to want to be around you as will, he's going to enjoy the wonderful feeling you give him.Have you ever been around someone, who made you feel so good about being you? That's how the sun feels, they feel like they can be themselves. Septembergirl/b][/QUOTE]Why my dear, your screwed Hahaha, but from a sun's stand point, he's going to want to be around you as will, he's going to enjoy the wonderful feeling you give him.Have you ever been around someone, who made you feel so good about being you? That's how the sun feels, they feel like they can be themselves. [/B][/QUOTE]I know, right?? Aw, that is sweet. I figured out today that my psyche is conjunct his NN exact. In Scorpio as well. Wonder what that means?? AubyanneFrom SUN conjunct VENUS in Scorpio in composite alone? I disagree. Sure, it's possible, but hardly guaranteed, you know?Septembergirl quote:Originally posted by Aubyanne:From SUN conjunct VENUS in Scorpio in composite alone? I disagree. Sure, it's possible, but hardly guaranteed, you know?I'm not sure what you mean....Aubyanne quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl: I'm not sure what you mean....Someone (I suspect you?) spoke highly of the Scorpio VENUS conjunct SUN in composite as being an intense, obsessive attraction. I warned not to be so general. That's not always the case, of course. Scratch that. It was Airyaquarian. It just wasn't quoted properly. I had to track it back. Septembergirl quote:Originally posted by Aubyanne: Someone (I suspect you?) spoke highly of the Scorpio VENUS conjunct SUN in composite as being an intense, obsessive attraction. I warned not to be so general. That's not always the case, of course. Scratch that. It was Airyaquarian. It just wasn't quoted properly. I had to track it back. I don't know why it didn't quote correctly. I tried to fix it and it still wouldn't do it correctly. I'm sure that aspect adds fuel to the fire, but isn't the cause. Airyaquarian quote:Originally posted by Aubyanne:From SUN conjunct VENUS in Scorpio in composite alone? I disagree. Sure, it's possible, but hardly guaranteed, you know?Yeah I just realized its composite. Not synastry like I have with my guy.A lot if my plants conjunct his sun. It's not obsession but adoration perhaps?If I'm obessed. I'm pretty sure there's mars-moons synastry. Some Pluto contacts as well. Or 8th house in plantsGeneral explaining I had my sun conjunct someone's Venus and I felt "great to be around them adorn'------------------If you live it up, you wont live it down
During the time we met again and slept together, the transit NN was conjucnt his vertex
Hi Everyone,I learned how the Sun conjunt North node works, he surely brought a confidence in me, I thought I'd never accomplish.
We have been friends on and off for a year. This whole time, I was exploring myself sexually with other partners. I was trying to fix the damage I experienced in my upbringing and other insecurities.Needless to say, none of these experiences helped.I just about gave up on intimacy when he contacted me randomly and i met up with him. It was one of the most soul wrenching, pleasing experiences, Where I finally realized "This is what sex is supposed to feel like."
Now, i'm not sure if I should contact him again.When i met him it was definitely a pull as they described.
So, anyone else felt so obessed
------------------If you live it up, you wont live it down
So, seems legit. But obsession, I've not experienced that with this.
Example: My NN is in Aries. Am I obsessed with every Aries person I meet? No. BUT, I am destined to have something with people of that sign. May it be friendship, or love or anything like that, I have to LEARN and to TEACH something to Aries people. NN is our current life karma. Positive or negative, its our karma that must be cleaned.
I think Sun conjunct Venus and maybe Moon opp Mars would lend to the obsession factor--as in feeling totally blown away/drawn in and in love with this person. ..
I'm so happy to hear you've found some healing and a positive opportunuty for engaged, meaningful, loving sex with this person.
It did, however, surprise me how strongly he reacted when I was transferred to another team. Well I did not quite understand it cause, we are of course still all working at the same place, same school, just that I am now in the team responsible for a different agegroup of pupils. We are of course still part of the greater team that is the whole school and colleagues.
Neverthless, when it became clear that I was apparently needed more elsewhere, and that would be the reasonable decision, he was protesting a lot and arguing with the superiors to keep me in his team, to an extent I did not quite understand to be honest. I mean it was not like I was leaving or something like that, ane even if I did, we are not that close. lol
Plus he is usually not the arguing type, but calm and logical (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Aquarius help with that I am sure. Oh Venus in Aquarius, too).
Nevertheless I took it as a compliment. Though of course it did not change the decision, and really, it WAS the most reasonable decision.
quote:Originally posted by yungang_grotto:I have a dear friend whose Sun is conjunct my North Node and I feel so good around her. It is not exactly obsession--it's a gentle encompassing sense of peace in the world which she and I generate together.. I sometimes have to remind myself that I am worthy of her attention and love because I admire her so much and she is so wise and wonderful... I think with the North Node we may not always know that we can embody those qualities if we are still being weighed down by the South Node, but it seems that no matter how down-trodden or disconnected we feel, it is *always* beneficial to us in a holistic sense to participate with our North Node energy... and engaging with people who encourage it is a great way to do this. I wouldn't hesitate to get in touch with him again..
quote:Originally posted by Ceridwen:my Sun falls onto the NN of a colleague of mine (0°44); I donīt think he`s obsessed with me (one isolated aspect could not show that anyway imo), but he does hold me in pretty high regard and pays me a lot of attention. In some weird way it`s almost as if I can`t do anything wrong (not that I tried to so far!). While he can be quite arrogant (others have complained about this, I have never experienced it to be honest), I just felt very respected by him and had the feeling he just liked being around me. It did, however, surprise me how strongly he reacted when I was transferred to another team. Well I did not quite understand it cause, we are of course still all working at the same place, same school, just that I am now in the team responsible for a different agegroup of pupils. We are of course still part of the greater team that is the whole school and colleagues. Neverthless, when it became clear that I was apparently needed more elsewhere, and that would be the reasonable decision, he was protesting a lot and arguing with the superiors to keep me in his team, to an extent I did not quite understand to be honest. I mean it was not like I was leaving or something like that, ane even if I did, we are not that close. lolPlus he is usually not the arguing type, but calm and logical (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Aquarius help with that I am sure. Oh Venus in Aquarius, too).Nevertheless I took it as a compliment. Though of course it did not change the decision, and really, it WAS the most reasonable decision.
Oh! A Sun person's perspective! I definitely understand his over reaction towards you. I can understand how it comes across uneasy with the Sun person. Even when I first met him, he made me uncomfortable initially as the NN person. I didn't feel like the self I usually knew ( kind how your co worker is) But like this one blog described. it's definitely a "Pull" that even though I felt uneasy at first, I felt it was very necessary to be around him for my energy growth and my health.
But yeah, I can see how the sun can feel like you can do no wrong.
Anyway, as ever, a single aspect can't tell the whole story.. the fact that your Venus is also conjunct his Sun greatly increases the liklihood that he also admires you greatly, and you'll both likely enhance the feeling of being wonderful people when you're together.. which you may not be so sure of when you're not. But your relationship can encourage this feeling growing
quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl:I would love to learn more about this. I also have this aspect with someone. I'm the NN and I feel very drawn to this person as well. Just wonder if that person feels anything from the sun's perspective.
What I'm learning from this aspect, I had to understand the sign my NN is in:It's in Capricorn, my SN is in CancerHis sun is in Capricorn.
With the South Node in Cancer, I'm conflicted in this life to stay home, be attached to my 'clan' family and being comfortable at home. Not exploring others outside my group.
To complete my journey in life with NN in Capricorn, I have to have some type of achievement in business, going outside of my family (which is something I always feared)but, to keep a balance, I must develop a strong sense of family and achievement in whatever business endeavors i achieve.
It makes sense I am so attracted to him. His home life, he moved out on his own at such a young age. Worked from the bottom and has a very stable independent life, without much family roots.
quote:Originally posted by Airyaquarian: What I'm learning from this aspect, I had to understand the sign my NN is in:It's in Capricorn, my SN is in CancerHis sun is in Capricorn.With the South Node in Cancer, I'm conflicted in this life to stay home, be attached to my 'clan' family and being comfortable at home. Not exploring others outside my group.To complete my journey in life with NN in Capricorn, I have to have some type of achievement in business, going outside of my family (which is something I always feared)but, to keep a balance, I must develop a strong sense of family and achievement in whatever business endeavors i achieve.It makes sense I am so attracted to him. His home life, he moved out on his own at such a young age. Worked from the bottom and has a very stable independent life, without much family roots.
Mine is in cap, too!! Maybe I've confused this with romantic attraction, because I'm attracted to him in that way. Not at first...but I think it's the things that we have in common through our jobs that have fueled the attraction.
I just feel like we complete each other some how. Maybe I'm delusional. Lol
quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl: Mine is in cap, too!! Maybe I've confused this with romantic attraction, because I'm attracted to him in that way. Not at first...but I think it's the things that we have in common through our jobs that have fueled the attraction. I just feel like we complete each other some how. Maybe I'm delusional. Lol
I know what you mean, but there might be other aspects to that.I felt a pull towards him, and I think what adds to my adoring him is the Sun conjunct Venus aspect like someone else says.
Keep being around him as much as you can, see what you can learn from him this lifetime.
quote:Originally posted by Airyaquarian: I know what you mean, but there might be other aspects to that.I felt a pull towards him, and I think what adds to my adoring him is the Sun conjunct Venus aspect like someone else says.Keep being around him as much as you can, see what you can learn from him this lifetime.
Our composite has sun conjunct Venus in Scorpio. 😬
quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl: Our composite has sun conjunct Venus in Scorpio. 😬
Have you ever been around someone, who made you feel so good about being you? That's how the sun feels, they feel like they can be themselves.
Have you ever been around someone, who made you feel so good about being you? That's how the sun feels, they feel like they can be themselves. [/B][/QUOTE]
I know, right?? Aw, that is sweet. I figured out today that my psyche is conjunct his NN exact. In Scorpio as well. Wonder what that means??
quote:Originally posted by Aubyanne:From SUN conjunct VENUS in Scorpio in composite alone? I disagree. Sure, it's possible, but hardly guaranteed, you know?
I'm not sure what you mean....
quote:Originally posted by Septembergirl: I'm not sure what you mean....
Someone (I suspect you?) spoke highly of the Scorpio VENUS conjunct SUN in composite as being an intense, obsessive attraction. I warned not to be so general. That's not always the case, of course.
Scratch that. It was Airyaquarian. It just wasn't quoted properly. I had to track it back.
quote:Originally posted by Aubyanne: Someone (I suspect you?) spoke highly of the Scorpio VENUS conjunct SUN in composite as being an intense, obsessive attraction. I warned not to be so general. That's not always the case, of course. Scratch that. It was Airyaquarian. It just wasn't quoted properly. I had to track it back.
I don't know why it didn't quote correctly. I tried to fix it and it still wouldn't do it correctly. I'm sure that aspect adds fuel to the fire, but isn't the cause.
Yeah I just realized its composite. Not synastry like I have with my guy.A lot if my plants conjunct his sun. It's not obsession but adoration perhaps?If I'm obessed. I'm pretty sure there's mars-moons synastry. Some Pluto contacts as well. Or 8th house in plants
General explaining I had my sun conjunct someone's Venus and I felt "great to be around them adorn'
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